Yesterday kicked my butt.

It was one punch after another. My husband and I were at our breaking points. Sick kids and exhaustion can do that to a parent. I fell into bed frustrated and defeated.

This morning I woke up more rested (Thank you Jesus) and reflected on yesterday. The word “imperfection” kept coming to mind.

Truth moment: I have the HARDEST time showing up imperfect.

I like to give the impression that I have my life together and that I’m on par 24/7, but the truth is I don’t. And I’m learning that’s ok.

You don’t have to be perfect, but you do have to show up. And sometimes you will show up for your children and your husband not having it all together. Your patience may be a little thinner or you may snap at your husband for something insignificant, but there is grace in those moments because we can learn from them. You can show your kids that it’s ok to not have it all together and teach them how to respond in those difficult moments. You can apologize to your family for your mistakes and teach them the valuable lesson of taking responsibility for your actions and the graces of forgiveness. Moms, don’t hide from those moments of imperfection in shame. Embrace them! Grow from them! They are a gift.